Those Were The Days?

Sometimes in your relationships, especially those that stood the test of time, you tend to forget and take for granted that it still has certain vulnerabilities no matter what. It still has to endure for each and everytime, anything that comes up to try and destroy whatever is treasured to make that relationship last. Then that day comes when a pretty huge deal comes along and hits each one of you in the face. Seems a second ago you were indestructible but all of a sudden you pause and think that this may probably be it. How did this mess came to be and how the hell are you going to get out of it? It seems that as you get older the more relationships get tougher to mend or strengthen. If in case this idea is wrong, what I am sure about is that it was much easier in highschool, much, much easier. I guess that is really the baggage of getting older. It seems that there is this force that sucks all the forces that keep you glued to whoever you are holding on to, making you more alone the more you get older. I just wish that whatever this is, we would all survive it. I'm not just wishing for things to be like the way they used to be but for all of us to grow and get better at it than before this thing happened. Right now all I have is faith.